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Did Ilhan Omar Marry Her Brother? Examining the Evidence Behind the Allegations

The short answer is no, there is currently no definitive proof that Rep. Ilhan Omar married her brother Ahmed Elmi in an immigration fraud scheme. But the full story behind this long-running allegation is complex. Despite circulating since 2016, no concrete evidence has yet emerged validating the claim that Omar committed marriage fraud or perjury.

This article will take an in-depth look at the "Ilhan Omar brother" controversy. We‘ll provide background on Omar, trace how the rumor started and spread, analyze available facts supporting and refuting the claim, and ultimately emphasize the lack of conclusive evidence either way despite multiple investigations.

Who is Rep. Ilhan Omar?

Ilhan Omar was born in Somalia in 1982 and immigrated to the United States as a refugee in 1995 after fleeing civil war. She studied political science at North Dakota State University. After graduating and working in various roles, Omar ran for office, becoming the first Somali-American legislator elected to office in the U.S. Her progressive policies and identity as a Muslim woman of color drew national attention.

In 2018, Omar won a seat in Congress representing Minnesota‘s 5th district, one of the first Muslim women elected. As a representative, she has advocated policies like Medicare for All, student debt forgiveness and reducing military spending.

But ever since her 2016 Minnesota state legislature campaign, Omar has faced attacks and controversy related to her marital history, which we‘ll now examine in closer detail.

The Initial Allegation Emerges

In August 2016, an anonymous post appeared on SomaliSpot, a niche online discussion forum used by the Somali diaspora community. The post claimed Ilhan Omar was legally married to Ahmed Hirsi in 2002 through their faith tradition, and had two children with him, but later married her brother Ahmed Elmi in 2009, implying immigration fraud.

This anonymous claim gave rise to the rumor that Omar had married her brother to help him gain U.S. citizenship. It was picked up and repeated by conservative blogs in Minnesota as well as the state Republican party, who called for an investigation.

At the time, Omar issued statements calling the claims "disgusting lies" aimed at derailing her election bid. But she did not directly address her marital history in detail.

How the Allegations Gained Steam

Despite Omar‘s denials, once the rumor was out there, it continued circulating in Minnesota conservative spheres through 2018 as she ran for Congress. In 2019, it exploded nationally after then-President Donald Trump retweeted and gave credence to the claim.

Trump tweeted that Omar had "married her brother" and he knew "for sure" she had "hatred" for Jews and America. His tweets drew widespread condemnation, including from Omar‘s fellow Democrats in Congress. But they also put the full glare of right-wing media on the brother allegation.

Conservative outlets like The National Review dug in on the claim, while fact-checkers like PolitiFact found "no credible evidence" substantiating it. Nevertheless, it became cemented in some quarters as an unproven attack on Omar‘s character and background.

Omar‘s Marriage History Timeline

Omar‘s marital history is admittedly complex. To understand how the rumors took hold, let‘s break down a verified timeline based on available records:

  • 2002: Omar has an "in faith" marriage to Ahmed Hirsi in Minnesota, though not legally recognized. They go on to have two children together.

  • 2008: Omar and Hirsi end their relationship and separate for a period of time, according to Omar.

  • 2009: Omar legally marries Ahmed Elmi in Minnesota, with a marriage certificate officially issued.

  • 2011: Omar reconciles with Hirsi and has a third child with him in 2012, even though she is still legally married to Elmi.

  • 2017: Omar‘s marriage to Elmi is legally dissolved after she seeks a divorce in 2017. She cites an "irretrievable breakdown" of the relationship.

  • 2018: Omar legally marries Hirsi to officially recognize their civil marriage after being apart for 7 years.

As you can see, Omar has acknowledged the overlapping timelines here look questionable. She has clarified that she and Hirsi separated in 2008, and she legally married Elmi in 2009 after their relationship ended. Omar said she and Hirsi reconciled in 2011, but did not legally divorce Elmi until 2017.

The Case for the Claims

Still, the circumstances aroused suspicion and the strongest "evidence" cited in support of the brother allegation includes:

  • Education history: Omar and Elmi both attended North Dakota State University at the same time, suggesting they knew each other.

  • Instagram posts: In 2012, Elmi posted pictures of Omar‘s children calling them his "nieces and nephew." The posts were later deleted.

  • Name similarity: Elmi shares Omar‘s father‘s surname, though this alone does not prove relation.

  • Perjury: Omar is accused of perjury related to Elmi divorce filings but charges have not been pursued.

The Case Against the Claims

However, many aspects of the available public evidence are inconclusive or contradict the claim:

  • Birth certificates: Elmi‘s birth certificate shows he was born in London and lived in the U.S. as a refugee.

  • Different fathers: Elmi and Omar do not appear to share the same father based on name and residency history.

  • No proof of relation: No proof of a blood relationship or growing up together has ever been uncovered.

  • Divorce reasons: Omar citing irreconcilable differences for divorcing Elmi is not firm evidence of fraud.

  • No charges brought: Despite conservative calls for perjury charges, no prosecutor has brought a case.

Investigations Bring No Conclusive Proof

In 2019, the FBI was reported to be looking into the marriage fraud claims, though details of the investigation remain private.

Additionally, the conservative non-profit Judicial Watch filed complaints about Omar‘s marriages with the Office of Congressional Ethics. No known action resulted.

Personally, Omar has firmly denied the allegations. On the establishment left, figures like Senator Bernie Sanders have denounced the attacks on Omar as racist and politically motivated.

But the lack of transparency around the FBI probe leaves the door open for speculation. Some argue that if the marriages were above board, Omar should provide more documentation to clear up the timeline.

No Definitive Proof Either Way…Yet

As this overview shows, there are reasons for continued doubts and suspicion around Omar‘s marital history. Right-wing media outlets have kept the story alive, while Omar has largely avoided directly addressing details.

However, there is also no smoking gun proving Omar committed immigration marriage fraud, perjury or married her brother. Hard evidence is lacking despite years of swirling rumors. And in American law, the burden of proof lies with the accuser, not the accused.

The Dangers of Political Rumors

Critics argue the persistence of the brother allegation, especially on the right, is symptomatic of racism, xenophobia and anti-Muslim biases that date back to birther conspiracies around President Obama.

The claim originated on an anonymous forum post rife with spelling and factual errors. When public figures shared such unvetted political attacks, it lends credibility to misinformation. And yet politicians have seized on the Omar marriage claims for their own gain.

Conclusion: Focus on Verified Facts

This polarizing issue has generated more heat than light with partisans lining up on either side based on political affiliation. Until conclusive new evidence emerges, the full truth remains elusive.

In cases like this, the wisest course is focusing on verified facts while remaining skeptical of uncorroborated accusations. Ilhan Omar continues serving in Congress, authoring legislation and shaping national conversations around issues like student debt and healthcare. Her record merits fair critique and scrutiny.

But when it comes to charges as inflammatory as immigration fraud and incest, the American principle of "innocent until proven guilty" must prevail in absence of proof. For anyone following along, the wisest stance is to keep an open but properly skeptical mind until credible new facts lead to a definitive resolution one way or another.



Michael Reddy is a tech enthusiast, entertainment buff, and avid traveler who loves exploring Linux and sharing unique insights with readers.